Frequently Asked Questions

Q. We have two left feet! Can we really expect to learn to dance comfortably at our wedding after only ONE DAY?

A. Every couple learns to dance at a different pace. However, you’d be surprised what the right instruction, a little patience, and a unique learning environment will give you. After just one day, you’ll have a completely different perspective on dancing and on relating to your partner. Dancing is as easy and natural as walking once you are taught by a seasoned professional. Our instructors have successfully trained thousands of people over the years. You give it your best shot for a day and we’ll make sure you’re dancing comfortably at your wedding.

Q. My fiancé is a nervous wreck about dancing at our wedding. Are all grooms nervous?

A. Almost all grooms are nervous about dancing. This is our specialty. Our seminars bring in a number of Sports-Related Teaching Tools to help folks (especially grooms and groomsmen) associate and quickly learn concepts, helping them to overcome their fears. Our approach is to systematically build confidence in both the leader and the follower and ensure that both parties understand fully what the rules are and how to “play the game.” This makes dancing with your partner both enjoyable and stress-free!

Q. How do we start and end our dance without feeling awkward?

A. If your dance has an introduction (an opening section without a vocal), you can use that time to walk onto the floor. If there is no introduction, you will feel more comfortable if you agree on a point in the music where you will begin, and practice that so you look and feel smooth.

A good way to end your dance is to do a dip, or an "over-sway." These are taught in all of our seminars and are easy to incorporate once you know the basics. Once you’ve gone through your final move, it’s always classy to end up in an embrace and a nice romantic kiss (provided it was the partner you came with).

Finally, if you plan to have members of your wedding party join you on the floor, you don't really need to worry about ending your dance in a formal way; just stop, give each other a small bow or curtsey (or a kiss!), and resume with the new partner.

Q. What is the easiest dance style to learn?

A. The Slow Dance is by far the easiest dance to learn because it is basically just walking in time to music. It comes highly recommended, as it is something everyone can use, no matter what type of music you listen to. The two social dances that we recommend are the East Coast Swing (think big band) and Salsa. Which you select depends on your music preferences. Each dance offers a variety of beginner-friendly moves and are very popular social dances. Also, both Salsa and Swing both provide great foundations for learning other dance styles.

Q. What is the proper format for guests to join the bride and groom on the dance floor?

A. Make sure everyone involved knows what is expected and when. As such, there are several ways you can invite guests to join you on the floor. If you wish to have only parents or wedding party members, arrange it ahead of time, and then invite them out; it is recommended that you do a dry run at the rehearsal dinner if all the participants are present. If you want to include all of your guests, have your DJ, the bandleader, the best man, or the maid of honor announce the invitation at the appropriate time. Finally, you might want to ask a few good friends prior to the event to be "ringers" in the crowd -- friends who are prepared to leap to their feet at the big moment, so that there's no awkward pause!

Q. How long should our first dance be?

A. We suggest the first dance last no more than 2 minutes. A typical ballad is between 2_ and 3_ minutes, so it would be best to leave instructions for a “planned fade” at a certain point in the music. Neither you, nor your guests, are going to want the song to drag on forever. There CAN BE too much of a good thing.

Q. What are the most popular first dance songs?

A. Several of these are listed on our "Top Wedding Songs" page. Also, we have a comprehensive database of songs (over 750) from which all our students can go through. We’d be happy to consult with you before, during, or after one of the seminars if you have any questions.

Q. What’s the best way to relax while dancing in front of ALL of our guests?

A. Some people resort to alcohol at times like these. We’re not recommending it; it’s just a fact. If you really want to be relaxed, it will come through being confident and prepared. You’ll go through dozens of reinforcing exercises and drills throughout any one of the seminars that specifically target areas of learning to help get you there. Start your lessons as early as you can so you can have more time to practice as your event gets closer. You’ll also want to practice in clothes that are similar to what you'll be wearing and on a space that is the same size as your dance floor. Of course, if you can, practice to your actual song, but don’t be afraid to dance to others just to keep up your confidence. Dance as much as you can.

Q: Are dance shoes necessary to take one of your seminars?

A: No, they’re not, though they’re often better for control and sometimes they’re more comfortable. We recommend learning with your most comfortable pair of shoes (make sure they’re not open-heel like flip-flops or mules) and then practicing in the shoes that you’re going to be dancing in on the night of the event.